Saturday, April 27, 2013

San Diego, Land of Fabulous Weather!

We’ve been in San Diego one week today!  It has been a glorious week of gorgeous weather, getting settled in, and exploring our new surroundings!  We have also been eating some really great food!  The produce here is amazing – so many fresh fruits and veges, I’m in heaven!  It’s nice to finally be able to cook when we want to with our little kitchen.  We’ve also been exploring some more of the local spots, and have tried Mexican, Brazilian, and a delicious cafĂ© since I last wrote a post.  We’re scoping out some good spots to take our first visitors (that and the weather should be incentive enough)!

On the left and above right, delicious homemade meals, 
And on the right, John's giant Mexican Burrito called the "King Burrito"

Our delicious lunch that we had today in Little Italy 

On Wednesday night John and I hung out with one of my old friends Jed!  We established that it has probably been over ten years since we’ve seen each other, and we had an amazing time catching up.  John and I went to Jed’s new house that he just purchased and hung out with him, his girlfriend Jamile, and her brother Brian.  We had a delightful time hanging around a campfire in his backyard, and had such a great time that we made plans for lunch the following day. 

On Thursday, we ate at this unbelievable Brazilian restaurant called Rei Do Gado.  There was a lunch special for $18 all-you-can-eat, and for the amount of food and delicious meats we ate, it was SO worth the price.  Not only did the restaurant have an amazing buffet, with everything from different types of rice, to various salads, to a variety of fresh fruits, there were also nine types of meat.  Waiters would bring the meat, fresh and dripping with juices, still on the skewer, and slice the meat right off onto your plate.  They were coming around so fast that I couldn’t even finish one piece of meat before the next came.  There were different types of chicken, pork, and beef.  We even tried one of Jamile’s favorites – chicken hearts!  John and I had skipped breakfast, and we were still full from lunch at about 9pm, so ended up just having a salad for dinner!

Pics from the park near our apartment

We’ve been trying to take walks and enjoy the gorgeous weather and we’ve even been able to go to the beach.  We checked out Ocean Beach Friday morning for a bit, and it was amazing.  Only a ten-minute drive from our apartment, which I was super excited about! 



John down by the water


Today John and I went to Little Italy, where an art fair was taking place.  We had a delicious lunch, walked around the fair, and then walked down by the water to the port.  It has been so amazing here for the past week, and we are so excited for the weeks to come!

We have been applying to jobs, too, and plan on getting more into the job searching this upcoming week.  If anyone hears of any job openings or has any connections, please let us know! :-) 


Little Italy Street Fair

Down By the Bay





Beautiful Sailboat and some interesting art along the water

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

First Few Days in San Diego!


San Diego has been amazing so far!!  Every day that we have been here has been about seventy degrees and so beautifully sunny!!  We thankfully got our blackout curtains, but it is so nice to open them and have sun streaming through the windows all day!  John and I haven’t closed our windows since we got here and it is great to be able to feel the breeze while we sleep! 

The neighborhood that we are in is really cute and fun.  We are within walking distance of some really great restaurants, and only about a five-minute walk from a really beautiful park.  Also, the other day at the park, there was a little ice cream man with an ice cream cart and the Strawberry Shortcake bar that I purchased was ONE DOLLAR!!!  I was elated and had been expecting to pay like three dollars.  It may not seem like a big deal to some, but I was overjoyed, and it made my day!  I now plan on searching for that little ice cream man every time I go to the park!

On Sunday night John and I found an amazing sushi place to eat dinner called Sushi Deli.  Seriously, SO GOOD!  I couldn’t get enough of the sushi; it was absolutely unbelievable.  And cheap, too!  We were talking to some locals before being seated for dinner and they were saying that although cheap, the quality of the sushi is amazing and for the same meal right up the road you could easily pay over one hundred dollars for two people.  Our meal and three drinks was less than $40 including tip!  I have a feeling that it is going to be one of our go-to places, and I can’t wait for some of my sushi loving friends to come visit us so I can take them there!  (hint hint Lindsey and Erin!)

Yesterday John and I got a ton of errands done.  We spent a few hours at the DMV getting our new California license plates!  Margarita, (my car), is looking so beautiful wearing her pretty new swag!  We also hung my old NJ plate in our apartment as a decorative item.  Reminds us of the road trip :-)  Yesterday we also got a ton of other stuff done and ran so many errands, but that’s all boring stuff, so I’ll continue to tell you about the fun!

Today John and I embraced our unemployment by going to see one of John’s favorite soccer teams, Bayren Munich, play at a bar called The Shakespeare.  It was a really great place and it was fun to be able to watch the game even though it was 11am on a weekday.  The bar was packed for the game, too, which made it really fun to watch.  We also got a really delicious lunch and overall had an awesome time. 

Right now I’m relaxing on our bed, enjoying the sun coming through our nice, big, open sliding glass doors!  Jealous? ;-P

Some of our first meals in the apartment, and in the middle a really delicious Kahlua and coffee I got during the soccer game!

Monday, April 22, 2013

Our Road Trip - The Final Summary!

John and I had an amazing seven-week road trip across the country.  We drove 6,296 miles, passed through 19 states, stayed in and explored 11 states, and only ended up needing one oil change.  Here is a summary of some tips if you’d ever like to plan your own road trip and how we went about cutting costs on ours.

Speedometer before and after!

First off, if you are going to plan a road trip, know who you are going with.  This may seem pretty straight-forward, but now having completed the road trip, I know there is no other person on earth (no matter how much I love you), besides John, that I would have been able stand for seven weeks.  Surprisingly John and I didn’t even get into any arguments!  That’s not saying that we didn’t get on each other’s nerves, believe me, we did.  I’m just saying that if you are going to spend seven weeks with someone – day and night, literally no escape (haha), and have to kill endless hours in the car, some legs of the journey being twelve to thirteen hours, you have to really, REALLY enjoy that person’s company.  Seven weeks is a long time with no alone time.  (I repeat, NO alone time).  I can imagine that 95% of the people I know would have gotten on my nerves after week one.  Also, you may think that the best person to share the trip with would be your significant other – Do NOT make a seven week trip with your significant other if your thoughts while planning it are “I hope we don’t kill each other!”  If that is your thought process, you probably will, and one of you will end up burying the other in the middle of the barren Texas desert.

That being said, here is my first rule of the road: Choose your road trip companion(s) carefully.

On our trip we drove through the following states: New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Maryland, West Virginia, Virginia, North Carolina, South Carolina, Georgia, Florida, Alabama, Mississippi, Louisiana, Texas, New Mexico, Arizona, Utah, Nevada, and California.  The reason we drove through all of these states is because we wanted to visit the following cities: Fairport, NY; Paramus, NJ; New York, NY; Wake Forest and Durham, NC; Jacksonville, FL; Miami, FL; South Beach, FL; New Orleans, LA; Fort Worth, NC; Santa Fe, NM; Phoenix, AZ; Sedona, AZ.; Grand Canyon, AZ; Bryce Canyon, UT; Zion National Park, UT; Las Vegas, NV; and San Diego, CA.  There are definitely more direct routes to San Diego from Buffalo, but John and I wanted to go to Miami for Ultra, and we chose to stick to southern cities because of the time of year.  Consider the time of year during your planning because for us, we had almost perfect weather the whole time.  If we were to take the same trip in August, we wouldn’t have mapped the same route because many cities like New Orleans, Phoenix, and Las Vegas would have had temperatures in the hundreds rather than mid-seventies/low-eighties. 

Rule number two is: Plan your trip carefully and consider the time of year while doing so.

Rule three: Make the trip in a reliable vehicle

Thankfully, “Margarita”, my trusty Honda accord was the perfect travel vehicle for us.  This rule is pretty straightforward.  Don’t make the trip in your giant Ford truck that gets less than ten miles to the gallon.  Don’t embark in a Geo Prism that has two hundred thousand miles on it.  Do not leave in a car that has its check engine light on.  Simply be smart.  Make the trip in a reliable vehicle and get any necessary work done prior to leaving.  That means you’ll want to get the car completely checked over, get an oil change, check your fluids, replace the filters, etc.  Also pack extra oil with you in the car, don’t let the gas tank get too low, and always have water, snacks, and a blanket easily accessible – just in case.

Rule four: Consider all costs BEFORE leaving

John and I had a LOT of money saved up before this move, which is why we even considered making this road trip.  Definitely over-estimate your costs before you leave.  You don’t want to be four weeks into the seven and run out of funds.  Overall, we spent a grand total of $7,552.  That includes Gas and Tolls, Hotels, Food, Tickets to shows, and “others”.  All the amounts are the totals – we split everything 50/50.  Also that amount does not include what we lost in Vegas, but that’s classified (don’t worry, it wasn’t too much, but it doesn’t affect the costs that matter to you). Below is a breakdown of our costs and tips for each category.


Hotels: We spent $3,041 on lodging. 

It is easy to spend a TON of money on hotels, and for us, it was our highest expense.  If you think about it, the cheapest, seediest hotel could be over $100 in a big city.  We were fortunate enough to have been able to stay with friends and family for half of our trip.  The equivalent of 3.5 weeks worth of nights were spent staying in locations that we didn’t have to pay for.  Another HUGE THANK YOU to all that showed us their hospitality!  Definitely plan some road trip stops based on where you know people.  Not only is it convenient to not have to pay for hotels in those locations, it is also really fun to be able to hang out with those you are staying with and have them show you around their city!

Other ways that you can go about saving money in the lodging department is to PLAN AHEAD!  We booked all of our hotels in advance once we had the tentative dates that we wanted to be in each city.  We searched for any deals we could find – within the cities that we wanted, and for stops that were just overnight to break up a long drive, we looked for the cheapest location with good ratings.  Definitely CHECK THE RATINGS online.  Now there are so many resources available to us, so check all your hotels online before you book.  We stayed in some awesome $70 hotels, but checked the ratings beforehand to know we wouldn’t be lugging all of our belongings into a dump. 

Also, when planning, use alternative methods for booking hotels – we used airbnb.com for a lot of our stops.  If you are staying somewhere for more than one or two nights, look into Airbnb!  Airbnb.com (and another is HomeAway.com) is a website where people rent out their apartments and it’s similar to a hotel where you would book your stay, but it’s a great way to save money because full apartments, usually including a kitchen where you can cook your own meals to once again save money, tend to be way less expensive than a hotel rate.  For instance, in Sedona, hotels were priced around $200/night, where on Airbnb we were able to find a full studio with a kitchen in a gorgeous neighborhood for $45/night.  I always check Airbnb first before looking into hotels. 

Also, check deal sites such as Groupon!  Once we had our cities picked out, I monitored Groupon and Living Social, checking every day to see if there were any new deals in the cities that we had chosen.  From my experience, call the hotel and tell them that you are thinking of buying the Groupon and then check if they have your specific dates available.  If they do, go ahead and buy the Groupon!  We were able to stay two nights in Santa Fe at a GREAT hotel with amazing continental breakfast for $100!!  For two nights!  It was an awesome 50% off deal!

Basically, to save as much money on hotels as possible: Look at Airbnb first, check deal sites such as Groupon and Living Social, and plan ahead so you are able to book everything in advance!

Food: $1718

Food was our second highest expense category, because obviously, there’s no way to avoid eating.  But still, there are ways to cut expenses in this category.  If you think of how many days are in seven weeks, (almost fifty for those of you a little slower in math), spending $1718 on food is not bad at all.  That’s roughly $34.36 a day – for both of us (only $17.18 each per day)!

The first way to save would be to try and eat out as little as possible.  John and I did a TON of eating out, at least one meal a day.  But, if your hotel room has a mini-fridge and no continental breakfast, grab yogurts at a gas station and stick them in there the night before.  John and I bought some disposable cereal bowls and spoons early on in our trip and had cereal many mornings.  Cereal is great because all you need is a small container of milk (that every gas station sells) and a big box of cereal that can travel with you from stop to stop.  It is really easy to save by just cutting out one easy meal during the day.  If your hotel has a continental breakfast, obviously utilize that.  Even if it’s a pretty crappy breakfast, you can always get some basic cheerios or a slightly stale muffin.  And breakfast is a great meal to skip going to a restaurant for – unless the place is widely known for its eggs benedict or something, all breakfast food is pretty similar and not worth spending the extra $20.

If you book an Airbnb location instead of a hotel, and the apartment or studio that you rent has a kitchen, this is a GREAT way to save money!  We were in New Orleans for five days, and were able to try some AMAZING restaurants, but we did try to restrict ourselves to one meal out a day to save on the cost of food.  Some days when we were out and about we obviously ate two meals out and enjoyed every minute of it.  But a couple of nights we bought a cheap bottle of wine and made some pasta for a meal under $10.  Booking an Airbnb location with a kitchen is an awesome idea to save some of your budget.

Another way that John and I saved a lot of money on food was by using phone apps like Yelp or Travelocity.  We also utilized large city’s Reddit pages to find local hot spots.  We probably ate less than ten meals that were over $50.  We used apps like Yelp to find hole-in-the-wall places that had decent ratings with a high number of comments to try the good, local eats.  This method turned out to be incredibly successful because for about $20, you could usually get a delicious dinner for two and be able to try local favorites.  One of our favorite places to do this was in New Orleans, where we were able to order several different small items for about $5 each, and share, being able to try 3-4 items in one meal.  It was great!  If you plan a road trip and travel to any of the cities that we went to, look back at what I wrote about our meals.  All of the good restaurants that we ate at I wrote about.

To summarize how to save as much money as possible on food, eat at your hotel or Airbnb location if possible, utilize any continental breakfast available, and try the local spots!  Try and avoid touristy locations that are typically overpriced and often not as good.

Our third largest expense was tickets.  We spent $1069 on four different shows/festivals: Book of Mormon, Ultra Music Festival, Blue Man Group, and the LA Comedy Club.  You can easily eliminate this category as a way to save money if you are trying to do your trip on a tight budget.  Obviously if we had not attended Ultra, we could have automatically saved nearly $800 on the tickets alone.  So when choosing what you want to do on the trip, you can use your discretion when deciding what you want to see in regards to shows.  You can always research ahead of time to get an idea of how much tickets are going to cost you.  A tip for Las Vegas is to wait to buy tickets for shows such as the LA Comedy club until you get there.  If you have never been to Las Vegas, you wouldn’t know that there are 50% off ticket stands all over the strip for shows that are for that night.  Even though our comedy tickets were supposed to be about $40 each, we were able to get them for half the price the day of at one of these ticket booths.  Thankfully a coworker shared this tid-bit with me before we left Buffalo, and his advice was very valuable!

Gas did not cost us nearly as much as I would have thought.  From Buffalo to San Diego we only spent $837 on gas and $131 on tolls.  A total of  $968 got us all the way across the country.  It may seem like a lot of money to some, but if you think about how much two round trip airplane tickets are, it would be around that price – and that’s to and from just one location.  Especially if you were flying from the Buffalo airport and most definitely had a layover.  I was surprised by how little gas cost, because I would have thought it was going to be one of our pricier expenses.  Granted, I do drive a Honda that gets good gas mileage, but that just reinforces rule number three: make the trip in a reliable vehicle.

As for tolls, once you get out of New York, there really aren’t that many.  There were a couple driving through New Jersey and down to North Carolina, but from North Carolina there weren’t any tolls until we reached Florida.  And from what I can remember, there were no tolls after we left Florida.  So once you are out of New York, the tolls get much more sparse.

Our final cost category was labeled “other”.  We spent $756 on these random costs, which encompassed everything that didn’t qualify as food, hotels, gas, tolls, or tickets.  It included costs such as souvenirs, museum or exhibit entrance fees, parking, Laundromat costs, drinks, our oil change, John’s mid-trip haircut, cab fares, bellman tips, and even includes the $10 shirt that I bought one night in Las Vegas when I was too cold.  Although each item purchased in this category was usually pretty cheap, this cost area does add up, so definitely have enough money on hand for the random costs that you incur that you might not think about when you originally plan your trip.

I hope that these tips and cost summaries will help you if you ever decide to plan a similar trip.  Our journey was nothing short of amazing and an incredible learning experience.  I wouldn’t change anything about the last seven weeks (except for maybe the gross dinner that cost us $50 in the Grand Canyon), but besides that, I have absolutely no regrets. 

John and I are so excited to be getting settled into our studio, and we hope that you decide to take a road trip out to visit us using some of the tips outlined above!  If you want to plan a trip or are wondering what would be the best places to see, ASK US!  We’d love to share info on anywhere we’ve been, offer any advice we can give, and help in any way possible.  If we are able to host you on any part of your journey, please do not hesitate to ask.  We were fortunate enough to have friends and family hospitably host us, and we would love to do the same!  Also, if you are thinking about a visit, we took the road trip from San Diego to San Francisco last summer and highly recommend making that trip!  It can be done comfortably (but quickly) in seven to nine days.  I have all our info from that trip as well if you need some tips or a travel guide.  And if you are considering quitting your job and moving somewhere else, as long as you have sufficient funds saved up in advance, I say DO IT!

I can’t wait to continue sharing our experiences with you in the future.  If you have read this whole “tips for the road trip” extensive information guide, first of all kudos, and second of all please continue checking up on the blog!  I am definitely going to keep blogging and keeping you all updated on our lives!  Hopefully soon I’ll be able to report on job leads!  Thanks for reading!

Sunday, April 21, 2013

We've arrived!!

WE ARRIVED IN SAN DIEGO!!!  We left Las Vegas early yesterday morning and embarked on a seemingly short drive of about six hours to San Diego!  Once we arrived, we checked into our “apartment”, which is a month-to-month residential location, and I was freaking out all day because I was worried about what the condition of the place would be.  We obviously weren’t able to see the apartment in person when we put down our deposit since we were in Buffalo, but it turns out that we had to check in at one of the company’s other locations, so we weren’t even able to see what the apartment looked like until AFTER we paid the remainder of our deposit, first month’s rent, fees, etc.  Nearly two thousand dollars later, I was practically about to have a coronary due to stress over the condition of our new place. 

Turns out I shouldn’t have been worrying (as John said in a I-told-you-so sort of way upon arrival).  But YAY!!!  We honestly couldn’t have hoped for anything better.  We did a thorough search for any type of vermin or bug (believe me, the search was VERY thorough), and all in all, the place was really clean and seems like a great spot!  I was so relieved!   Here are some pictures of our cute little studio before we unloaded all of our crap into it.  It’s tiny, but just what we need until we are able to find jobs!  It’s great; we’re both so excited! 





John on our little balcony and the view from up there!  (We're on the third floor)

Once we had unloaded the backseat of the car, (we decided to wait until today to unpack the trunk), John and I searched for a place to grab dinner.  We walked right up the street to a little place called Pizzeria Luigi, and happened to stumble upon a gold mine!  Once we entered, we realized the place was on Diners, Drive-ins, and Dives, and served ABSOLUTELY AMAZING New York City Style Pizza!!!!  As many of you from Buffalo know, I was never able to find decent pizza that met my very high NYC/NJ standards, and on the first night in San Diego, our first meal in the city no less, the pizza EXCEEDED my expectations!  (I think it might even be better than some of the NYC pizza I’ve had!  GASP!)  I thought that us finding this amazing pizza place within a few blocks of our new home was a good omen, and I’m now super pumped to live in our new location (haha).

After our quick and delicious dinner, we headed out to John’s favorite store (just kidding), Walmart, for all of our necessities.  After a quite extensive shopping trip and two loaded-up shopping carts later, John and I headed home and unpacked all of our new belongings and groceries.  Although among other things, we bought items to make our bed very comfy, we failed to purchase black-out curtains… which it turns out we really need.  After unpacking last night, we didn’t end up going to bed until about 2am, and this morning, although having slept on a very comfy bed, the sun woke us up at about 6am.  The thing is, this isn’t normal sun Buffalo friends, this is the “I’m streaming through your window as though you’re located directly on my surface, get to the beach” kind of sunlight!  Needless to say, we’ll be going back to Walmart today to get some better curtains!

I’m not sure what the rest of our day is going to entail, probably more unpacking, getting settled, maybe a bit of exploring, etc.  I am going to start working on our cost summary for the trip so keep an eye out for it if you’d like to use our trip as a reference for your own!